Neil J. Bloomfield (1945-2022)

 

At the 50th with daughter Erica and grandson Derek

 

Neil with long-time partner Sheri Lang

 

 

The class is saddened to learn that Neil died of a stroke May 5. Neil was at a '66 lunch in late March, and his friend Robert Chester spoke with him a several weeks ago; he seemed fine in both cases.

 

Several moving tributes from classmates and family, along with selected photos are included here. Before the 50th reunion, Neil prepared this Flix '66 video which shows Neil's humor, love of surfing, and his family life. Please send any photos or thoughts about Neil that you would like to share with the class to 66_CommTeam@tiger1966.org.

 

The class extends its condolences to Neil's long-time partner Sheri Lang, his daughters Erica, Jenny, and Violet and his grandchildren Caleb, Theo, and Derek.

Celebration of Neil's Life

There was a Celebration of Life for Neil Bloomfield Sunday, July 17, at the Key Room in Novato, California. In addition to Neil's family and non-Princeton friends, there were three classmates physically present (David Marshak and his wife Suzanna, Tom Adams, Jon Holman) (see photo) and four virtual (Ken and Ruth Krosin, Robert Chester [with whom Neil also went to Horace Mann], Charles Plohn, Tom Hanks).

Princeton was very much alive in the room.  The family spoke often of Neil's affection for Princeton, about Tiger Talks (Neil had them all watch Robert Chester), and several family members gave shout-outs to us and our outfits.  Robert spoke warmly and humorously about their long relationship (including each being best man at the other's first wedding, and Neil bringing California-style brownies to Robert's - but with full disclaimers).  Ken and Ruth Krosin also spoke and David Marshak led a Locomotive cheer. Note the hat on the memory table for Neil.

 

 

 

Tributes from Friends and Family

Sheri Lang

Neil had blood clots in his brain and was having balance and other issues for the last year plus. But his passing was very sudden as we didn't know he had the clots until he went into hospital to see if he had been having minor strokes and they did an mri scan.
 
They tried to hold off another stroke with medication but he had one at the hospital, and then cardiac arrest, and then he passed!  It was shocking! I wish we had more time to at least process things with him as the severity of his situation was revealed but it was not to be. For him, I'm relieved as there was no cure or fixing his condition and he would continue to deteriorate and be very limited while we attempted to hold off next stroke.
 
So very sad and I miss him so much.

 

Charles Plohn

Neil and I were close friends while at Princeton (both WWS and Cloister Inn) and afterwards until he moved to California in the mid-'70s. We remained good friends ever since, but 3,000 miles apart limited our getting together in person to conversations and a brewski or two at major reunions. Neil, Doug Crase, and Steve Harwood were ushers at my wedding to Dorothy in a park in Lincoln, Nebraska 52 years ago.

 

Stories range from: 1) being stopped late one night by the police in Washington, D.C. as our car stalled going the wrong way on a one-way street and with Neil, Ken and Ruth Krosin, and I wearing togas; to 2) during his time practicing polarity therapy and acupressure massage, Neil showed up to lunch with a mutual friend and me at a NYC restaurant with his portable massage table on his way home later that day in San Francisco.

 

There is some good background info about Neil in his write-ups in our major reunion books and The History of Bloomfield Law Group, Inc. for a summary of his legal career.

 

Neil was one of the very first published "authors" in our class, co-editing a book titled The Community and Racial Crises published by Practising Law Institute in May 1966.

 

And from his 50th Reunion Book..."I have facilitated and attended several events in the Bay Area, including ones for our grandchild Class of 2016, and enjoy the new friends I have made this way - the 2016ers are refreshing and wonderful. I am very much looking forward to our 50th Reunion in May!" That was 6 years ago and the last time we got together in person, although we did exchange emails periodically.

 

Bob Nahas

I didn’t know. What a shame. A wonderful guy. One somewhat unique characteristic was his continuing to surf into his later years.
 
Always had a big smile. When he arrived at Reunions with several family members, energy seemed to emanate from the group.
 

I always enjoyed calling him for his AG gift as it led to an enjoyable chat.

 

John Scully

What a terrible loss. I always enjoyed being with Neil, and this is so SAD!
 
He was a real leader and joyous to all of us. Neil made us so much happen over those years, and he lifted us all up.
 

We have lost a joyous leader that we all will miss!!

 

Two photos of Neil with John Scully

July 12, 2015, Oracle Park, San Francisco. Giants game with Class of 2016 Grandkids

Neil and John (orange shirt) are in the center of the second photo

 

 

 

Erica Greathouse on her Father

The loss is immeasurable but so is the love left behind.

 

Neil J Bloomfield, thank you for being a pillar of strength in my life. Thank you for stepping up and being my dad when you didn't have to and for treating me like one of your own. Thank you for loving my mom and always showing your love and support through life's ups and downs. 

 

You were brilliant, kind, loyal, witty, and by far, one of the most amazing humans I've ever met. To say you will be missed is an understatement. They broke the mold when they made you!

 

I hope you're winning all the chess matches, surfing all the big waves, and wearing all of your craziest Crocs, socks, and cuff links in Heaven. 

 

Where there is great grief, there is great love.

 

Rest easy. We love you forever.

 

Jenny Bloomfield on her Father

My dad, lover of life. Embracer of opportunities. Not a person who did anything half-way. He loved the wild ocean, surfing, sailing, horseback riding, animals. He loved to have pets but never in a cage or on a lead, always free beings. He had dogs, cats, finches, peacocks, goats, horses, and mythological Dr. Seussian looking chickens. He had a joyful exuberance in life and the elements. He once tied himself to a telephone pole with a rope around his waist to float out in the eye of a hurricane and experience the fullness of what it meant to be the calm inside the storm. He surfed the biggest waves fearlessly.

 

I have seen him save many lives in the water. He never stopped being a lifeguard in practice after his summers on Fire Island in his youth. After graduating Princeton and Harvard Law School, he worked in NYC for a big firm and then gave up the conservative east coast life to move to California, where he felt free to be himself fully. He had a hot tub place for many years called Real-ax in Fairfax. He spent most of his adult life living in the hillsides of Marin County, in Fairfax, San Rafael, surfing at Bolinas and Dillon Beach, ranching at his Dillon Vision ranch. Raising myself, my sister Violet Bloomfield, my step sister Erica Greathouse, and living and loving with his partner of 30 years, Sheri Lang. Running his own law practice, Bloomfield Law Group. He loved his work. He went out of his way to help many people even at his own expense, and in the days since his passing, I have heard many stories of gratitude to him. He was a tough adversary, inspiring awe in the courtroom, and a weekend hippy.

 

He walked the line between worlds in his personal and professional lives. He was one of a kind, with his own flamboyant style, wearing crazy socks and crocs, fun ties, and any colour suit he liked to work. Tie dye and suspenders for his days off. I have him to thank for not caring what other people think, having the courage to dance to my own drum, the ability to live life as an experiment. He celebrated every moment here and took in the complexities and difficulties in life as challenges to greet with humor and perseverance. Nothing was ever a big deal, just a puzzle to solve with a willing and capable mind and spirit and a few laughs along the way, the anticipation of an interesting story to tell later.

 

I am so grateful to him for shaping who I am, to be an adventurer of life and live fully. He was always truly, completely and unapologetically himself. He gave me a very special and tender type of love that I never doubted for a second, even when the waves of life crashed around us. I am left with an image of myself as a small girl, him in a velour robe, reading the fairytales of the Brothers Grimm to me in our Fairfax home. The coziness of his cuddle and the softness of his voice as he read to me.  Riding on a horse feeling safe and secure as a young girl in the saddle in front of him as we galloped through the Fairfax hills. Swimming on red flag days, because those flags “are not for us,” always trusting he would see me safely to the shore. He took me to Thailand, New York City, Cherry Grove, the Castro, Grateful Dead concerts, in my teen years, always committed to showing me all of the vast kaleidoscope of life, no part left out, opening my eyes to many ways of being and living, and opening my mind and heart to all possibilities. Those times so long ago will be forever sacred in my memory. He built houses and homes out of abandoned ruins and rose always like a phoenix from ashes at times when his risk outweighed the rewards. Our Victorian house in San Francisco, he painted in sunset colors, lavender, orange and pink, and I got the lavender turret room, a fairytale fantasy. His energy and joy in life and his creativity will live on in me. My home is by the sea. I am also one with the elements. I will learn to surf with my son, since that was something he always planned to do and never got around to. We thought there was still time. We can take nothing in this life for granted. I feel so crestfallen to have been so far across the world in New Zealand when he passed suddenly, that he had to die without me near. I have so much gratitude for everything. I will miss him forever. RIP my beloved Dad, Papakins, Baba. Neil J Bloomfield today and all days, I dance for you.